In a lot of my consultations lately I have been noticing a common False belief that is really preventing business owners from moving forward…
It’s that they think something needs to be “perfect” before they can launch it or sell it!
WRONG!!!!
Now I’m not talking about being sloppy or disorganized and just trying to sell any old thing…
My point is that there is absolutely no way of knowing how well something will or won’t be received until you put it out into the world!
It’s only then can you get feedback from clients and tweak as needed.
For so many of the women I talk to the belief that it has to be perfect or they have to be perfect comes from FEAR!
Fear of…
being wrong or looking stupid
being rejected
failure
being seen as a fraud
Here’s the GOOD NEWS!
I can guarantee you that if you put yourself out there and take bold action you will experience every single one of the above.
You will be wrong and look stupid…you will be rejected…you will fail…you will be seen as a fraud!
It happens to everyone that really puts themselves out there and takes bold action! I know what you are thinking…you said there was Good News!
The Good News is that you can stop worrying about them happening. The KEY is HOW YOU RESPOND in those experiences. You can never control what other people think about you and you are NOT responsible for their feelings.
So you can take comfort in owning that you have the power of choice! A choice in how you respond & handle those experiences and a choice in using them as opportunities to learn, grow, and change was needs to change to move forward.
If you are finding that the fear of any of the above has become so strong that it has you stuck or paralyzed from moving forward, that is a good indication you have powerful past experience(s) where these fears & beliefs have been imprinted on your nervous system. This happens beneath the surface in your subconscious mind, where moving forward is seen as a threat to your survival. Unless they are removed and shifted energetically it can feel impossible to move forward! I have found it is important to receive support in this situation.
Here’s to Imperfect Action!
